Submit yourself to the Lord willing and wholeheartedly, In Spirit and in truth, in Holiness and righteousness. Allow the Holy Spirit lead you and help you maintain a constant fellowship with him. That way;
He shapes your lifestyle.
Teaches you how to talk better
He gives you dressing advice.
He also helps you relate better with people eg. Your spouse, children, house helps your boss in the office and your colleagues, your friends.
Your relationship with him affects your lifestyle in general.
Paul told Timothy to be an example of the Believer….
1 Timothy 4:12 “Let no man despise thy youth; but be thou an example of the believers, in word, in conversation, in charity, in spirit, in faith, in purity.
A constant relationship with the Holy Spirit makes you a better and outstanding Believer.
Make room for him.